Here are some links to stories and blog posts that I’ve read recently that I think are worthwhile to pass along.
First up, my friend David Baldwin wrote an eloquent and moving meditation on love and his journey of figuring out his sexuality in an evangelical environment. It’s beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story and your thoughts on love, David.
The loving God that I believe in made me just the way I am. He filled me with desires for love and connection, some of which can come from friendship, and some of which can come only from a romantic relationship with a person to whom I’m wildly attracted, and who wants to be with me the way I want to be with him. If I believe that God is truly loving, I have to believe that he did make me exactly as I am, and I need to continue pursuing patience, kindness, humility, and the many other virtues of love in the way that best leads me towards these things. That way is love. So I will pursue love until I no longer can.
Two years ago I wrote about how I changed my mind about same sex relationships, and it was thinking about my friend David that began the change in my heart. In that post I wrote that I would be following it up with some posts about the Bible passages that are usually used to condemn homosexuality. I finally have one of those posts nearly finished so that should be up in the near future. But before I get into abstract theological debates, I wanted to highlight the very real human element.
Next is a piece about a Christian alternative rock band named The Violet Burning. Michial Farmer, a fellow alum from the same Bible college I attended (though we didn’t actually overlap), has been writing a series of primers on bands and artists in the 90s Christian alternative rock scene. I was in high school and college during the 90s and these were some of the bands that meant the most to me in those years. Farmer has been doing a meticulous job in listing, ranking, and commenting on the important albums from these bands; all of the entries are well worth a read if you know these bands or if by some chance would like to know them now.
I want to highlight this entry on The Violet Burning because their music intersects with some of my personal history with how I met my wife. I met her on an online message board that discussed Christian alternative music, and my very first post on that message board involved TVB’s song “Ilaria.” Farmer says about the song that “Despite the hermeneutic gymnastics of some of Pritzl’s more pious fans, it’s hard to hear “Ilaria” as about anything other than sex,” and sure enough, that’s what my first post on the message board argued as well: “I myself have had Plastic and Elastic since it came out in late 98 and, to be honest, I’ve always thought the song was about sex.” She noticed my post.
We got married a little over three years after that initial post, and we ended up including one of The Violet Burning’s more worship-y songs in our wedding ceremony. My wife’s older brothers played and sang a deeply meaningful version of “I Remember” during communion. (While I’m mentioning our wedding music, I would be remiss not to share David’s version of The Magnetic Fields’s “It’s Only Time”—it’s so beautiful.)
At some point I’m going to write more about my relationship with Christian alternative music, and with Christian music more generally. I touched on it in the piece I wrote last year for Rock & Sling about Michael W. Smith and the first cassette I purchased at a Christian bookstore, but there’s so much more to be said about how music, and Christian music especially, has been tied up in my identity over the years.
The last piece I want to share is about home health care workers by Sarah Jaffe. I’ve written a number of short snapshots I’ve called “Hospital Stories” about the year I worked taking care of difficult patients in a hospital as a constant observer. This particular piece of journalism follows the career of June Barrett who has worked in Florida as a home care worker since 2003, not long after she immigrated to the United States from Jamaica. It’s a hard, demanding job, but it doesn’t pay very well. I remember well that I didn’t make a whole lot more than minimum wage for my hospital job either. It’s especially relevant now with the current health care bills in Congress and the potential for Medicaid cuts. As the article points out, under the Affordable Care Act,
The expansion of Medicaid, which took effect in 2014, meant more funding for home care and more jobs for care workers. The bill also expanded healthcare for the workers themselves – Barrett had never had chicken pox as a child, and when she contracted it as an adult from a client with shingles, it aggravated her asthma.
The whole piece is worth reading to think about the value we put on the hard and sometimes menial work of taking care of sick people in their homes.
I might try this link format again if there is remotely any interest in it.